FAQs

Separation anxiety is a panic disorder or phobia. To help a dog with separation anxiety, we apply systematic desensitization training, often coupled with medication from a veterinarian to manage the dog’s anxiety at a chemical level. Medication options should be discussed with your veterinarian, or I can refer you to a veterinary behaviorist if needed.

While there isn't any answer to what causes separation anxiety, we do know what doesn't! I hope you will find comfort in knowing that you didn't cause your dog to struggle with alone time, they are not being stubborn, angry, or spiteful, and they do not know any better. Their brains just aren't wired that way. Whatever your dog is doing while alone, whether it be destruction or urinating, this is your dog's way of coping with the anxiety they are feeling. They truly cannot help it. 

Unfortunately, separation anxiety is not something that will naturally resolve on its own. There’s no way to predict a timeline for your dog’s separation anxiety, as each dog is an individual. Many factors influence each case, including your ability to complete the training and suspend absences. The rate of progress is entirely determined by your dog and can be slow, especially at the beginning, but often accelerates as training progresses.

I encourage you to think in terms of months, not weeks or days, when committing to working on this with your dog. I require a minimum commitment of 4 weeks. This amount of time will allow me to learn about your dog and their body language, make progress, and teach you how the protocol works.

Separation anxiety is most effective when done remotely, within your own home, with the use of video technology. You can use anything from your laptop, smartphone, tablet, or an inexpensive, standalone Wi-Fi camera. I promise you don't have to be a techy to use it!

Virtual training is the gold standard method for working with this type of behavior. The good news is that not only is my program designed to fit your dog and her needs, but also you and yours! I can make adjustments to the training plans to make them easier to fit into your schedule, and include step-by-step instructions so there’s zero guesswork on your end about how to apply the training.

I completely understand why a board and train appeals to you! Not having enough time to commit to training can certainly be a big roadblock to progress - not to mention just having the energy to put into training after a long day at work or having other life obligations.

Since board and trains are a significant investment, I want to caution you that they are generally not very effective solutions for separation related behaviors. This is because dogs are very context-specific learners, so it matters what environment they are being left in and who is doing the leaving. Chances are low that being left alone in a trainer’s home or facility will transfer to you and your home.